那边红娘子说起了不喜家长显摆孩子。是的，虽说孩子需要榜样，但老拿别人的孩子来比较自己的孩子会很伤孩子的心。我想起了电影喜福会里的这一段对话：
Daughter: Like I say at dinner - not hungry. Mother: What? You’re mad at Waverly? Daughter: How can I be mad at someone with all that style? Its just a shame that I wasn't born that way. M: So it’s me that you’re mad at? D: No. I am just sorry that you got stuck with such a loser. That I have always been so disappointing. M: What you mean disappoint? Piano? D: Everything. My grades, my job, ... Not getting married... Everything you expected of me. M: Not expect anything! Never expect, only hope. Only hoping best for you. It’s not wrong to hope. D: No? Well, it hurts. Because every time you hope for something I couldn't deliver, it hurt. It hurt me Mamee. And no matter what you hope for I will never be more then what I am. And you never see that..What I really am. {Mother takes off heart pendent from around her neck and puts it in daughter’s hands and looks directly and intensely into her daughter eyes.} M: June, since you baby time I wear this next to my heart, now you wear it next to yours. It will help you know... I see you. ...I see you. M: That bad crab, only you tried to take it. Everybody else want best quality. You.. You thinking different. Waverly took best quality crab, you took worst. Because you have best quality heart. {Puts pendant around daughters neck and strokes her cheek and holds daughters face in her hands and looks directly in her eyes} M: You have style no one can teach. Must be born this way. ...I see you. |
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