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174.幸福的童年很重要

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发表于 2022-12-25 13:30:31 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
一个 gay 的朋友去看心理医生, 他的阴影来自父亲从小对他弟弟极为赞赏, 但对他总是批评, 后来他的同性恋行为跟此原因有关。

也有个朋友从小因为家中有一个生重病的手足, 长期父母的注意力都在那个手足身上, 以至于他一辈子都在寻求父亲的肯定和关注,即使后来在婚姻里也 常以受害者的角色来对配偶进行感情勒索。一切行为的出发点, 甚或对自己孩子的要求都是以取悦他父亲为原则,

还有个例子, 男孩的父母长期不睦, 父亲不愿回家, 他的母亲在他幼年时又因为车祸重伤需要他长期的照顾, 造成他后来同性恋的倾向。

因为父母的不完全造成孩子的悲剧太多了。

A gay friend went to see a psychiatrist. His shadow came from his father who admired his younger brother very much, but always criticized him. Later, his homosexual behavior was related to this reason.

There is also a friend who has a seriously ill sibling in his family since he was a child. His parents’ attention has been on that sibling for a long time, so that he has been seeking his father’s affirmation and attention all his life. Even later in his marriage, he often acts as a victim. Emotional blackmail from a spouse. The starting point of all behaviors, and even the requirements for his own children are to please his father.

In another example, the boy's parents were at odds for a long time, his father was unwilling to go home, and his mother needed his long-term care because of a serious injury in a car accident when he was young, which led to his later homosexual tendency.

There are too many tragedies for children caused by the incompleteness of parents.
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