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[IT] Why Facebook Is for Old Fogies

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发表于 2009-2-20 02:09:03 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
本帖最后由 闲云野鹤 于 2009-2-20 02:13 AM 编辑

儿子反对我开FaceBook账号,说是“ It is weird to have 40 year old on facebook."

从霞友送来的这篇文章推断,他不是唯一的孩子对父母们说这种话的。

而现在,父母们开始反击了。

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1879169,00.html

Technoculture

Why Facebook Is for Old Fogies



Thursday, Feb. 12, 2009
Facebook illustration
Illustration by John Cuneo for TIME

Facebook is five. Maybe you didn't get it in your news feed, but it was in February 2004 that Harvard student Mark Zuckerberg, along with some classmates, launched the social network that ate the world. Did he realize back then in his dorm that he was witnessing merely the larval stage of his creation? For what began with college students has found its fullest, richest expression with us, the middle-aged. Here are 10 reasons Facebook is for old fogies:

1. Facebook is about finding people you've lost track of. And, son, we've lost track of more people than you've ever met. Remember who you went to prom with junior year? See, we don't. We've gone through multiple schools, jobs and marriages. Each one of those came with a complete cast of characters, most of whom we have forgotten existed. But Facebook never forgets. (See the best social-networking applications.)

2. We're no longer bitter about high school. You're probably still hung up on any number of petty slights, but when that person who used to call us that thing we're not going to mention here, because it really stuck, asks us to be friends on Facebook, we happily friend that person. Because we're all grown up now. We're bigger than that. Or some of us are, anyway. We're in therapy, and it's going really well. These are just broad generalizations. Next reason.

3. We never get drunk at parties and get photographed holding beer bottles in suggestive positions.
We wish we still did that. But we don't. (See pictures of Beer Country in Denver.)

4. Facebook isn't just a social network; it's a business network. And unlike, say, college students, we actually have jobs. What's the point of networking with people who can't hire you? Not that we'd want to work with anyone your age anyway. Given the recession — and the amount of time we spend on Facebook — a bunch of hungry, motivated young guns is the last thing we need around here.

5. We're lazy.
We have jobs and children and houses and substance-abuse problems to deal with. At our age, we don't want to do anything. What we want is to hear about other people doing things and then judge them for it. Which is what news feeds are for.

6. We're old enough that pictures from grade school or summer camp look nothing like us. These days, the only way to identify us is with Facebook tags. (See pictures of a diverse group of American teens.)

7. We have children. There is very little that old people enjoy more than forcing others to pay attention to pictures of their children. Facebook is the most efficient engine ever devised for this.

8. We're too old to remember e-mail addresses. You have to understand: we have spent decades drinking diet soda out of aluminum cans. That stuff catches up with you. We can't remember friends' e-mail addresses. We can barely remember their names.

9. We don't understand Twitter. Literally. It makes no sense to us.

10. We're not cool, and we don't care. There was a time when it was cool to be on Facebook. That time has passed. Facebook now has 150 million members, and its fastest-growing demographic is 30 and up. At this point, it's way cooler not to be on Facebook. We've ruined it for good, just like we ruined Twilight and skateboarding. So git! And while you're at it, you damn kids better get off our lawn too.
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-20 02:17:54 | 显示全部楼层
转送这文章给儿子后,下面是他用中文写的回复:

“我靠!世界完蛋了!”

上了N年的中文学校,就这句学得最精。

语婷,我靠是什么意思?
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发表于 2009-2-20 06:53:56 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 昨夜雨 于 2009-2-20 07:05 AM 编辑

2# 闲云野鹤

So it is true for your 小站:

1.  小站 is about finding people you've lost track of.

2. We're no longer bitter about high school.

3. We never get drunk at parties and get photographed holding beer bottles in suggestive positions.

4. 小站 isn't just a social network; it's a business network.

5. We're lazy.

6. We're old enough that pictures from grade school or summer camp look nothing like us.

7. We have children.

8. We're too old to remember e-mail addresses.

9. We don't understand Twitter, so we just use 记录 as our Twitter.

10. We're not cool, and we don't care.

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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-21 00:24:48 | 显示全部楼层
2# 闲云野鹤

So it is true for your 小站:

1.  小站 is about finding people you've lost track of.

2. We're no longer bitter about high school.

3. We never get drunk at parties and get photograp ...
昨夜雨 发表于 2009-2-20 06:53 AM

此文与小站是完美结合。
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发表于 2009-2-21 00:38:43 | 显示全部楼层
转送这文章给儿子后,下面是他用中文写的回复:

“我靠!世界完蛋了!”

上了N年的中文学校,就这句学得最精。

语婷,我靠是什么意思?
闲云野鹤 发表于 2009-2-20 02:17 AM

你学了那么久的中文,也有不知道的不是?:)
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-21 00:54:08 | 显示全部楼层
你学了那么久的中文,也有不知道的不是?:)
yaxin 发表于 2009-2-21 12:38 AM


雅雅,你要去那条丢人线看过才会明白的。

btw, how is Shanghai? still cold?
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发表于 2009-2-21 19:05:18 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 语婷 于 2009-2-21 08:24 PM 编辑

哈哈,这照片里的老爸酷象野鹤啊~~~
赞~~

你别害我了。。俺不知道~
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发表于 2009-2-21 19:55:40 | 显示全部楼层
野鹤,你说的是你老大还是老二?我家老二还没进入玩 facebook 的队伍。人家直接就去玩 youtube 了。他们那年龄段的,现在玩 youtube 的很多。但好像都没有facebook。也可能他们就永远不玩 facebook ?

你儿子不同意你去facebook开帐户是对的。因为那是他们的社交的地方。就好比咖啡店有面向年轻人的,中老人的。进错了店,你会不舒服。另外,他们都用真名。这点,我们这样有家有业的可能要顾忌的。再说了,你要去,也得想法拉一帮人一起去,否则你的好友list怎莫办?空着?
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-21 20:29:23 | 显示全部楼层
野鹤,你说的是你老大还是老二?我家老二还没进入玩 facebook 的队伍。人家直接就去玩 youtube 了。他们那年龄段的,现在玩 youtube 的很多。但好像都没有facebook。也可能他们就永远不玩 facebook ?

你儿子不同意 ...
hanxin 发表于 2009-2-21 07:55 PM

老二, 大的不care.

facebook交的是现实中的亲友.不用带着去的.
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发表于 2009-2-21 22:24:00 | 显示全部楼层
6# 闲云野鹤

shanghai is not that cold. it starts raining. Good news is US companies in China seem doing fine, in general speaking.
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-22 00:03:32 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 闲云野鹤 于 2009-2-22 12:05 AM 编辑
再说了,你要去,也得想法拉一帮人一起去,否则你的好友list怎莫办?空着?
hanxin 发表于 2009-2-21 07:55 PM


Surprisingly, when I signed up, there were more than 10 people, who are in my email address book and are in facebook,  showed up as my potential friends. They are ranging from my classmates to my coworkers, and local friends to relatives in HK. So I don't have to worry my friend list being empty now. :)
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发表于 2009-2-22 00:07:25 | 显示全部楼层
11# 闲云野鹤

Facebook怎么知道你的Address book的成员呢?
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-22 00:13:28 | 显示全部楼层
11# 闲云野鹤

Facebook怎么知道你的Address book的成员呢?
昨夜雨 发表于 2009-2-22 12:07 AM


注册的时候可能那里选了让他们去查询吧。
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发表于 2009-2-22 00:23:26 | 显示全部楼层
注册的时候可能那里选了让他们去查询吧。
闲云野鹤 发表于 2009-2-22 12:13 AM


So you did give Facebook a specific permission to check your addressbook.  

There is a hi5.com website which is also supposedly a social networking website.  But it just steals your address book without asking.
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-22 00:27:32 | 显示全部楼层
So you did give Facebook a specific permission to check your addressbook.  

There is a hi5.com website which is also supposedly a social networking website.  But it just steals your address book wi ...
昨夜雨 发表于 2009-2-22 12:23 AM


Well, actually I am not sure, since I didn't read every thing when I signed up. But since it is a "respectable" SNS, I assumed..... It is too late for me now.
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-22 01:15:10 | 显示全部楼层
刚和我妹妹通了电话。她登录的时候facebook没给她找朋友。那就是我自己允许了的啦。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-25 03:29:30 | 显示全部楼层
大儿子在FB上的记录:"xiaohe is now friends with his dad on facebook, hahah. Weird "。
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发表于 2009-2-25 11:06:34 | 显示全部楼层
也有人邀请我参加facebook,还没敢去注册,怕又陷进去了。

野鹤,好玩吗?和这论坛有什么不一样?
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-25 15:04:35 | 显示全部楼层
野鹤,好玩吗?和这论坛有什么不一样?
星光 发表于 2009-2-25 11:06 AM

星光, FaceBook 和小站的空间很相似。

区别在于, FB是为生活中工作中的亲戚朋友同学同事提供的网上交流平台。多数人用真名实姓。

一般网站论坛是为陌生人提供交流平台,大家穿着马甲不露真面目。

当然了,就像所有事情都有例外一样,某些已经把网名当真名用的银就无所谓了。
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发表于 2009-2-25 15:12:50 | 显示全部楼层
啊………嚏!

除了姓名,生日之外。他们还要啥信息?
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发表于 2009-2-25 15:20:31 | 显示全部楼层
野鹤,看到你在末末那给我的回帖了。谢谢。
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发表于 2009-2-25 15:23:24 | 显示全部楼层
对于我讲,加入意义不大。小儿子还没在那里玩。大儿子绝对不会让我看他的。另外,不愿意白白把自己的信息给facebook。
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发表于 2009-2-25 15:26:39 | 显示全部楼层
Twitter 也挺好玩。。。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-2-25 23:07:35 | 显示全部楼层
Twitter 也挺好玩。。。
hanxin 发表于 2009-2-25 03:26 PM

are you on Twitter?
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发表于 2009-2-26 17:53:17 | 显示全部楼层
are you on Twitter?
闲云野鹤 发表于 2009-2-26 04:07 AM


开过一个账号。但没真正用过。可以考虑开一个,让学生们追踪,哈哈。
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